Reviewed and updated 20 October 2026.
Coping with difficulties is not a test of whether you are mentally strong enough. Health, resources, relationships and circumstances all affect what a person can manage at a particular time.
Five habits to practice
- Pause before choosing a response. Notice what is happening and give yourself a moment to identify the immediate need.
- Choose a small next step. Break a difficult task into an action you can realistically complete.
- Keep support available. Contact someone you trust or ask for practical help when appropriate.
- Review expectations. Adjust a plan that repeatedly exceeds your current capacity.
- Make room for recovery. Protect time for rest and activities that matter to you where possible.
These habits are starting points, not a treatment plan or a guarantee that distress will disappear.
Practice when the situation is manageable
It can be easier to learn a new approach during an ordinary stressful moment than in the middle of a crisis. Try one habit and notice whether it helps you respond more deliberately.
If it does not help, consider a different approach or additional support. A technique being useful to someone else does not mean you have failed if it is not useful to you.
Avoid turning coping into self-blame
You can work on your response while recognizing that a workplace, relationship or financial problem may also need to change. Positive thinking cannot remove every external barrier.
Know when to seek more support
Persistent distress, difficulty functioning or changes that concern you are reasons to speak with a qualified professional. Asking for care is compatible with resilience and self-respect.
The World Health Organization provides an illustrated guide with practical stress-management exercises that can be explored at your own pace.
Further reading: WHO: Doing What Matters in Times of Stress.
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